LIFE: A GIFT OF MARRIED LOVE
July 22 - July 29 is observed in the United States as "Natural Family Planning Awareness Week." It is co-sponsored by the American Academy of Fertility Care Professionals and the Secretariat for Pro-Life Activities of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops. The dates highlight the anniversary of the papal encyclical Humanae Vitae (July 25) and mark the feast of Saints Joachim and Anne (July 26), the parents of the Blessed Virgin Mary. In today's first Scripture reading, from the Book of Genesis, Abraham and Sarah rejoice in God's gift to them of a child. Natural Family Planning (NFP) is a life-affirming and morally acceptable method of planning one's family according to God's plan. Following is an article that I wrote for The Catholic Spirit:
NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING AND MARRIAGE PREPARATION
Good quality formation to live the vocation of Christian marriage is one of the best gifts that the Church can give to those who are preparing to enter into the sacrament of marriage. The culture in which we live presents a model for marriage that is very different from the model presented by the Church. Fidelity, permanence, and openness to life are three pillars at the heart of the Catholic understanding of marriage. Worldly understandings of marriage revolve more around individual fulfillment and secular ideas of happiness. It is because of the wide variance between our culture's understanding and the Catholic understanding of marriage that formation for couples entering into this sacrament is so important. Parish marriage preparation programs enable couples preparing for marriage to receive a solid formation for living the vocation of Christian marriage. In parishes where I have served, I have directed that the marriage preparation program include the study of Natural Family Planning. If we expect couples getting married in the Catholic Church to follow the Church's teaching on marriage, we ought to do everything possible to give them the tools to do so. Couples getting married in the Catholic Church need not only to know what the Church teaches, but also to understand why the Church teaches what she does.
Many couples who approach us seeking to be married in the Church have little understanding of the authentic teaching on marriage. For example, they might not know that marriage is a true vocation within the Church, a call by God to serve Him and the Church in a unique way. They may not understand the scriptural basis for the Church's teaching on marriage and family life. They probably have not studied the philosophical and theological basis for the teaching on openness to life.
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